To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best, night and day, to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight; and never stop fighting. – e. e. cummings
There is no one size fits all! There is no single recipe for success that works for everyone!
There is another issue. Most people, including myself, know what to do at any given moment that would make a difference right now. You and I don’t do ‘it’ with regularity and some never. Gestation is nearly never talked about. The idea, the thought that would make all the difference, takes time to break ground. Dig it up and it dies. Once it arrives it needs to be nurtured, watered and protected so it can produce its intended fruit.
ee cummings battle rages on! The ability to sow and sow some more, daily and often insures eventually something will appear. It takes months for some fruit to appear and be ready and others a decade or more. I hope you have someone whose help makes a difference for you.
Any ideas and thoughts are appreciated!